Saying "I Love You"... It's More than Words. -- Marriage Help & Advice

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What does it really mean when we say to our wives or husbands “I love you”? christian lingerie
Does it mean “I have a warm and fuzzy feeling towards you right this second, but it could be gone tomorrow”? Could it mean “You look gorgeous in what you’re wearing, but that attraction will wear off as soon as you change to your raggedy pajamas”? Or maybe it means “You just let me have my way and I’ll love you as long as you’re doing things my way”? christian lingerie

Many times, we throw around those three little words very half-heartedly, without realizing the true meaning we should have behind it. “Love” is such an overused word in our society that it’s lost all of its real definition. christian lingerie
We “love” those shoes, we “love” ice cream, and we “love” (insert favorite sports team). We even “love” to hate certain things. christian lingerie

The truth is love is not a feeling we have about someone or something. It’s not based on our emotions, though that’s how the word is mainly used now, to convey what we feel about a certain person or thing.

So what is love? christian lingerie

Love is a decision to put someone else’s best interests before your own. In marriage, that person would be your spouse. christian lingerie

Love is unconditional. That means that you make the decision to do what’s best for your spouse, no matter what the cost and no matter what you get, or don’t get, in return. Now that we know what love means, it MUST be expressed. christian lingerie

Here are the two main ways to express love in your marriage. christian lingerie

1) SAY – Continue to say “I love you.” These words need to be said in a marriage. Don’t take for granted that your spouse already knows it. Start telling them on a daily basis. Words are powerful and those words can go a long way towards building up your marriage and encouraging your spouse. Everyone needs to hear that they are loved. And it will begin to create an atmosphere of peace and confidence in your marriage. Just remember what it really means and to not throw the phrase around lightly.

2) DO – Show your spouse your love. Take the mindset that you’re there to please them. Do something self-sacrificing for them. There must be something that you know of that if you did it for them, they would be tremendously appreciative. Go do it. But don’t do it with the motive of getting the appreciation. Do it because your spouse would like it. christian lingerie

Meet their needs. God created men and women as different, so your spouse’s needs may be different than yours. If you don’t know what their needs are, then ask them, with the intent of truly attempting to meet them on a consistent basis.
Now your actions are lining up with your words.

Therefore be imitators of God as dear children. And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma. Ephesians 5:1-2 (NKJV)

Go tell your husband or wife right now that you love them and explain what it now means to you. It could be the start of something new and refreshing in your marriage. christian lingerie

by David of MLV

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Hot Passion & Romance: A Marriage Guide

A Passionate Marriage: How To Have It & Keep It

  When we first become engaged to the woman or man of our dreams, we envision a certain amount of perfection that will follow in our marriage. We see our life filled with smiles, laughter, passionate kisses, maybe some children. We don’t dare imagine life without a few little bumps in the road, because after all we are trying to be honest with ourselves. What happens after we say “I Do” is where the rubber meets the road. All of our hopes and dreams we have separately, jointly and even unspoken ones… all join together. The brightness of a newly married life and romantic adventure wears off a bit. After years it may fade away completely.

 Why would this happen? Why is it accepted as part of the way things are when you get married? At Spark This Marriage, we reject that lie. We understand that marriage is a life long romance that requires us to be vigilant to guard it and our hearts. The enemy of our souls is seeking to kill and destroy and our marriage, Christian Marriage, tops his list of things to destroy. There are a lot of reasons why he does this. Mainly because marriage is holy before God and he hates everything called holy. Another big reason is that when we are married before the Lord, we are blessed, strong and bonded in unity. Literally that must make the devil’s skin crawl.

When we remember all these things, we should stand a bit taller and be ever more committed to protect and strengthen our relationship with our husband or wife. We know that satan prowls about like a hungry lion and breaking a godly marriage is pretty delicious to him. So, how can we strengthen and protect our marriage from that? It takes a hard and focused stand on the issue. We must eliminate everything, yes every thing, that comes between the husband and wife relationship. If our marriage is full of bickering there is a struggle for power in the marriage. That will take some serious denying of your flesh and giving God control. If we are spending too much time or too much money on “things” or “hobbies” then cut that out too. Sensual movies, sensual books, victorias secret (soft porn!) have no place in your marriage. Ever. Don’t fool yourself if you think you are not affected by it. Your eyes & heart should only be for your sweetie. God’s word is clear on the matter.

Our children, according to scripture, are NOT ahead of our spouse or the Lord.
The Biblical order to your priorities is:
1. God
2. Husband/Wife
3. Ourselves
4. Children
5. Other family, Friends, Serving in Church
6. Exterior world

When we are at worship practice 3 nights a week, playing cards or out with friends frequently, shopping for kicks, on the net chatting or facebooking, texting, at soccer practice & games, pta meetings, television, netflix and so on… we are spending way too much time NOT being married or a family. We have our priorities out of whack.

It then makes sense that we will have a cascading failure of our marriage and family!

If we take the time to prioritize our walk- God first, Our husband or wife second- then our life will shift back into proper focus. No longer will chaos, busyness, fighting, power struggles, passive aggressive remarks and behavior, sexual problems in the bedroom and our children’s behavior plague us. All of these things do straighten out if we genuinely turn all of this over to the Lord.

On the subject of our bedrooms, it is a taboo topic for some reason in the Church. Secret sin abounds in this area. It is not a place to manipulate, coerce or avoid and make excuses. The marriage bed is pure and holy and good and safe. A place of trust and intimacy. God says so in Song Of Solomon, “Drink deeply!” Passion and romance are very good and He wants us all to have it. When we begin to treat our husband or wife like they are a treasure to us, with honor, with adoration, we will see a change. Make an diligent effort and do it regularly. Progress may be slow at first, but keep praying and keep up the good work.
Your marriage is worth it. Every little step counts. If you need help, a fantastic book “The Love Dare” is available at the link below.

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EVERY MARRIAGE Needs Lingerie

Five Reasons Why You Should Buy Lingerie

 Lingerie has become mainstream. With the increase in popularity Spark This Marriage, women and men are purchasing these sexy articles of clothing as gifts for others and for themselves.
If you are not the typical lingerie person you are missing out!

There are many benefits to owning a drawer full of elegant lingerie. Lingerie spices up any relationship. Your significant other doesn’t want to see your granny panties. Your intimates should be a sight for the eyes. They should not say "soccer mom" or "kmart". They should say: enticing, chic, elegant, sexy and a bit daring.

Most husbands are visual creatures so they will greatly appreciate that sexy new piece that you bought. You will have his attention! It will create increase any romantic mood that you have planned and helps to prevent your relationship from getting stale. Let him “accidentally” see it peeking out of your drawer or from under your blouse you are wearing. Your husband will be falling all over himself to attend to you, help around the home, have conversations with you and be tender and sweet. Probably without him even realizing it. christian lingerie

There are many colors, fabrics and designs to choose from. When you first look at the beautiful and tasteful lingerie at Spark This Marriage boutique store, you will be amazed at everything that is available. It is now considered a fashion genre all on its own. You are sure to find something that you will like that fit you and your style. It doesn’t even matter what your body size you might be. Spark will cater to all. They realize that one size does not fit all so they will have regular and plus sized lingerie pieces. If you are uncertain, you’ll want to be sure and check your sizing before ordering lingerie online, since health regulations prohibiting exchanges on these items.

They say that clothes make the man however, lingerie makes the woman. It builds your confidence. It is something that truly makes you feel feminine and sexy. As only you know what you are wearing you will have an extra spark in your step just from your undergarments. You can mix and match items and find out what designs you like and what enhances your body. You might even find pieces that slim your figure or accentuates you.

Purchasing lingerie is fun.
Receiving it in the mail is delightful.
Wearing it for your husband is out of this world amazing!

No one wants to be caught in dowdy underwear. You are not "plain Jane" so why wear HanesForHer panties or a flannel jammies like you are?

Even if no one sees it you know that you are wearing it and it will convey through your attitude and actions. So spicing up your lingerie will also spice up your life - not just romantically - but overall. Even if your budget won’t allow you to purchase haute couture or expensive pieces you can find inexpensive items that you can slowly add to your clothing wardrobe at Spark. Internet purchases at Spark This Marriage [http://sparkthismarriage.com] allow you the ability to buy from the comfort of your home without being hassled by the sales person and have it delivered right to your front door. Discreetly. christian lingerie

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Flattering Lingerie For EVERY Woman

Question: What type of lingerie is best for me?

There are several styles that most flatter the womanly figure: Babydoll, Chemise, Corset and Bustier.

Babydolls and Chemise are similar styles. They are both short and fitted pieces of lingerie that are typically modest. To add a hint of mystery or seduction, you can choose a chiffon babydoll or chemise. They are perfect for a romantic evening, or a night of feeling pampered. christian lingerie lingerie christian

Babydoll:
If you feel like flirting, a babydoll is the way to go. Babydolls are fitted in the bust with a full skirt. As a result, it’s important to get the bust size right when purchasing a babydoll. Sometimes babydolls have a stretch bodice that makes it easier to size for full figured women. Babydolls are well suited to women with a pear shape as they hug your curves on top and fall gently on your hips.
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Chemise:
Chemise, on the other hand, accentuates and creates curves. When you want to feel luxurious, a beautiful silk or charmeuse chemise will feel soft on your skin and hug your curves. For more comfort, you can choose a stretch chemise and still be pampered.

Corsets and Bustiers:
Modern corsets are much more comfortable than corsets of yesteryear. They are elegant, form fitting, sexy, and provide the slimming effect and bust lifting that most women look for in lingerie. They flatter every figure.

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Growing And Falling More Deeply In Love

Strengthen your marriage and add some spice!

Every marriage can be full of fun, passion and romance, but it doesn't need to stop there! In addition, we each can have a marriage of deep friendship, honor, trust, peace and joy. It's not as tall of an order as you may think. Our marriages are worth every effort to kindle the spark! It surprises a lot of people to hear that many marriage issues work out when we are more giving in the bedroom. It does not hurt to shore up other areas though.
After all, this is a lifelong romance and it deserves our attention!

These items have been specially chosen to help you both grow and fall more deeply in love with each other.

Simply Romantic Nights:
Igniting Passion In Your Marriage
HOT SELLING ITEM 

The Complete Husband
FOR SERIOUS MARRIAGES!
Your marriage will never be the same. It will only get better!

The Love Dare

WE ALL NEED THIS ONE!
Includes an interactive quiz!

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Our main goal here at Spark This Marriage, is to help married people keep their marriage protected from a p-rn-graphy saturated world and inspire them to work on their marriage in EVERY area.
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This is a subject we are passionate about.
It is the very reason we use mannequins.
It is also the reason we do not provide items that have ladies or gentlemen pictured this way on unremovable packaging. We provide tasteful classy items in a "visibly safe" boutique, free of nudity or graphic/offensive material. No nudity.

We believe our customers appreciate this extra effort and that is why they keep coming back AND tell their friends.

Caring for Lingerie and the Romantic Results!

Question: How should I wash my lingerie?

Your sexy lingerie will last much longer and retain its color and feel if you wash it all by hand. We recommend you buy our Lingerie Wash or woolite. Our Lingerie Wash smells divine and properly cleanses your delicates. Line drying is much preferred to a machine dryer.

Not to mention, there is a certain sexiness generated when you see your lacy thong panties swaying softly in the breeze. It kindles a spark. It's romantic. It reminds our sweetie of close encounters past. It makes a heart beat a bit faster.

This simple thing makes a much bigger impact than most ladies realize!

We recommend you wash all lingerie before wearing.